While you are busy appreciating others, make sure you include yourself. Value your precious time and energy, because if you don’t, no one else will. If you give abundantly of your time, energy, and resources without feeling appreciated, over time, you will build resentment.
If you are in this situation, you may think that something is wrong with the other person, but actually, you are upset at yourself for not valuing yourself more. Stop making excuses for others and show appreciation for yourself by reallocating your energy. The moment you do this, your value will increase.