Everything you see in others is a mirror of yourself. That’s why it’s much easier to love and accept others when you love and accept yourself. Focus on fully embracing all of your traits, especially the ones you don’t like. Lifting the expectations and conditions you place on yourself lifts your expectations of others and the conditions you place on them. So, make life easier for yourself. Instead of trying to change others, which never works, work towards accepting and loving yourself for all that you are, and watch how it magically stops others from getting on your nerves.