It’s hard to appreciate any relationship when you compare it to the fantasy of what you think it “should be.” Have you created a story about someone in your life that focuses only on the negative? Do you have a hidden agenda that your relationship fails to live up to?

Look deeply into the story you’ve told yourself and see whether you are upset with them for their negative side, when in fact, their negative side provides exactly what you need to learn about appreciation and self-growth. Only when you can see both sides can you experience the infiniteness of true love.