RELATIONSHIP REMINDERS WHEN IT COMES TO THOSE THAT DRAIN YOU:
1. It is not your responsibility to finance their life with your time, money or energy, even if you love them. It is a choice, not your responsibility.
2. It is not selfish to limit what you give of yourself if you lose energy by being with them or talking to them. It’s okay to draw time and space boundaries to protect your vital life force.
3. It is not possible to be the primary source of their happiness. You can help illuminate, support and guide them, but you can’t be the source from which they eternally partake.