You are not the person you were ten years ago. You are not the person you were five years ago. In fact, you are not even the person you were just a year ago. Take a moment to think about it. How much have you changed? How much has changed in your life? If not outwardly, then look inwardly. Do you feel you are more aware that you ever have been?
Many people tell me that they are much more sensitive these days, especially to things that didn’t used to bother them in their relationships. Although awareness is good in many ways, it can also be a challenge because it forces us to acknowledge where we are at, and sometimes take action in ways that can be uncomfortable.
Have you had to (or do you want to):
- Say “no” to others where in the past you would say “yes”?
- Hold stronger boundaries with your time or energy?
- Choose a different path because the current one is not working for you?
- Make choices that serve you better (and possibly feel some guilt)?
If your answer to the above is “no” – then have you noticed that you have been grouchier, uninspired, irritated or felt more frustration than usual in certain relationships (both personal and business)?
If so, it may be time to get ready to stand up for your truth in a stronger way. This Lunar Eclipse we have coming up is like a full moon on steroids, and its effects will last for at least the next six months.
To best utilize the energy of Aries and Libra, pay attention to the urges that come up in your relationships. Take action, and if you are “afraid” to, then begin to develop the courage to act. It’s a time to be blunt and forward, yet diplomatic and graceful. Find a way to say what you need to say in a way that will serve both parties involved.
Ask yourself where you need to set goals that are more in line with who you are today. Remember – you are here to life your life in the way that most inspires you. You are not here to do what everyone else wants you to do. If it feels like it’s not possible for you to make a change to the degree you desire due to the complexity of your situation, just start with your intent and your truth.
Don’t judge yourself for feeling the way you do. There is no right or wrong, just what is right for you. Know that the clearer you get about who you are, the more you will be able to make shifts in your life that will move you towards your greatest life.
