LOOK IN THE MIRROR: Everything you see in others is a mirror image of you. That’s why it’s much easier to love and accept others when you love and accept yourself. It’s wise to focus on fully embracing all of your traits, especially the ones you don’t like.
Why? Because lifting the expectations and conditions you place on yourself lifts your expectations of others and the conditions you place on them. So, make life easier for yourself. Instead of trying to change others, which never works, move towards accepting yourself for all that you are and watch how it magically stops others from being so irritating.